Choice: Battling the Daily Dilemma for the Better

“Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, and intelligent execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives – choice, not chance, determines your destiny.”
~ Aristotle

The Beauty and Beast of Choice

In everything we do, from yogurt to cars to pants, from university to profession to location – we have to make difficult choices.

While it’s nice to have options, it’s stressful, difficult, and often overwhelms, leading us to skip choice and accept default. We become passive, crippled by options.

Industrial growth and market economics built a worldview assuming that more choice equals more freedom and more happiness. As the more is better cliché continues to mingle its way through society, it’s becoming evident that more is not necessarily better and certainly does not make things easy.

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How To Make Hard Decisions Easy

“With better awareness you can make better choices and when you make better choices, you will see better results.”

~ Robin Sharma

Damned If You Do, Damned If You Don’t

What to do with my life? This question can be a lifelong quandary itself. It includes so many intricacies and other questions it really becomes a wicked problem.

These daunting questions require dramatic decisions and riddle our lives with dilemma. We have opportunity, yet we suffer. No matter what we choose, there’s always a “what if?”

This feeling is natural, but it feels horrible. Knowing that we are damned if we do and damned if we don’t, many are struck by fear and suffer from analysis by paralysis.

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